Tim and GH, Looks like we are all hitting the wall about the same time...all I can say, from the first to make the leap, is that it has helped me a little with detaching from W, but I have not lost hope or have I stoped Db...I have been reading in the "D but not done" BB and although it is not as active as this BB it has people that are still trying despite the process of D...interesting views on there. Both of you need to be strong as long as you can but then you need to be the best person you can be for yourself and your children whatever the future holds.
