[quoteSomehow I suspect you mean you don't want to rely on someone else for your happiness. I've tried to separate wanting my H and needing him. Of course I don't really need him, but I do really like having him around. And I don't think there's anything wrong with another person making us happy--so long as we also know how to be happy alone too.

I really hope that all made sense.


SuperStressed




That makes perfect sense! I always want people in my life to share in the beauty and happiness the worls can offer! We have to be strong as individuals and be able to find our own happiness. Then be able to share a portion of it with another person without smoothering that person or being the sole supplier of their happiness! Balance!
The balance we are all looking for.
Thanx SS and Frank!


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