Hit the wall now what......New thread

[Tim297181]

I was happy, then sad. But as spitfire pointed out to me today, the A will go through these gyrations and I need to expect it and stay level.

It is amazing what the emmotions of a person will do to them. My W a week ago today was saying how horrible the OM was and that she was putting him ahead of me and her children, and now it is all fun and games again!
The trick is to stay level like you said Frank.

I said I was not going to post unless it was positive. Came home and was shaking like a leaf, but tried to not show it. We had a pleasant dinner with the kids, and we talked about work for me and her long day at school. She went down to study and that was it! Stay Strong!
I even had a real test when I was doing laundry and found a note in my W pocket on the back of a receipt, and it was the OM who wroye out his schedule for this week for her! I just put it back and left the dirty pants in the laundry!
Need to keep going! Keep my mouth shut! Tret her like a true friend, and tomorrow is another day!