Talk without speaking Cry without weeping Scream without raising your voice................. She's runninig to stand still
Thanx Flaneur I love U2! The quote is so appropriate to my sitch. My actions have to speak for me now, and in a positive way to achieving my goals of saving my marriage, and being a stronger person for my self and the kids. I did go home at lunch today and put together the spare room downstairs. I have been avoiding putting the bed frame together, and cleaning it out since we came back from Mexico, and we started the downward slide. I know that was controlling, and allowed me to keep her in the same bed as me. NY said it not to treat her as roommate, but as a VERY CLOSE FRIEND. Believe it or not before I ever posted here on the BB I did that from Aug until mid Dec. I did my best just to be there as a friend to her and it paid off because we started to recouncil. I know what needs to be done and now it is time to take the real actions to save my marriage, and truly better myself!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
