R U kidding? read your post?...I feel like I'm living multiple lives between TMU, you and the others on here...i read everything...I have not responded on your post due to me not representing the popular opinion DBering style.
I feel like the agreement that was made is she went out last night and you get tonight...end of story...sorry if that is not DBer and accomidating...but life a B!tch in the big city...so how many nights a week does she get to escape reality where you take care of everything? They are her kids too are they not?
I personally believe that you ahve been more than accomidating to her...but like I said prob not a popular opinion on the BB but I think you have to put your food down since an agreement was made...how about suggesting that "her friends" come over to watch a movie and make margaritas...watch her sweat and dance then