Well if you have any advice I still could use some! I phoned and left a message: "I said I would still like to go out tonite, and I know she does to. So can we work sommething out that we both can accomplish what we want tonite. I aslo said I need to go out and try take my mind off things, and try to stop thinking about the events of the week." I guess we will wait and see her reaction. We already tried the babysitter option, and the 2 we use are both busy! So one of us have to give in! I know she wants to go out with the OM tonite! Evil me says screw it! The compassionate me says she can do what she wants, and I will spend another evening alone with the kids!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
