Thanx Frank. I always appreciate your input! I do have an issue in front of me with my W. She is now openly seeing the OM in front of me. Last nite she was angry at me, so instead of coming home ande letting me work out, she asked to stay out with her "friends". Well since she was already out I said OK. It was really not a big deal to me. The agreement was I would go out tonite. I was thinking of watching the hockey game with somme friends of ours. His wife was going out so I said I would come over. This morning I was a little down, and my W asked if I was stilling planning to go out. I said I was not sure but would like to do something. Now she just called in a panic because she wants to go out and see a couple of friends. These friends she wants to see are very good friends with the OM, so you know it is a double date. She called and left a message that since I was not sure of going out she would really like to. My normal reaction would be to say OK. I feel I should say no, and I still am going out regardless if I go over to our friends house. As soon as I say that there will be a war and she will think I am controlling. To tell you the truth I am not thrilled about going out tonite! Any advice?
Tim
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