Quote: Tim, question for you to ponder: Is it really that you're unable somehow to have control over yourself and give so much control over yourself to your W, which I don't believe to be the case, or is it perhaps that deep down tucked away all hidden somewhere, is a fear that if you did do the "right things", that she might come back - and you're fearful therefore that she'd hurt you again? And so, you unconsciously sabotage, acting in ways therefore that practically guarantee the death of the relationship? Ask your C to help you examine that.
Now THAT is deep. Something to ponder in all our sitches. Thank you NYS once again.
