Tim you are so needy / clingy and being such a doormat that it makes me physically cringe to read your posts. I get seriously worked up thinking about how you are letting yourself be demasculated.
Establish and enforce some real boundaries. Your wife runs around with OM all bnights of the week and you're calling to see if shes ok?? What exactly are you worried about?? If OM can keep it up??
If I can barely read your thread because of your doormattiness, then how attractive do you think you are to your wife??
Anybody who lets themselves get treated the way you do has no respect for love for himself. How do you expect your wife to love and respect you??
I know that this is extremely harsh, but I really struggle when I see somebody who is obviously a kind and generous person and a good father let himself be mistreated.
Please, please, please, get the balls to protect yourself and your kids.
