Quote: Amy I am not sure you have kids? Did they effect you? I can't believe my wife will put the OM ahead of her kids! This day has been unbelievable, and it ain't over yet! Almost 4hrs and I am supposed to remain calm after the day we had! WTF
Yes. I have 2 kids. They were 8 & 11 at the time. They effected me tremendously and I went to great lengths to not let them suffer. Of course they did, though. I have talked with both of them (they are 10 & 13 now) and explained to them that many of the reasons their Dad and I separated were my fault and I had just not realized it. They know we are trying to reconcile. I have eaten much crow and that is okay because I was wrong. I was home with them every night. I only went out a few times and left them in the evenings. I can count the times on one hand. I stayed with OM when they stayed overnight somewhere. My H slept on the couch for almost 15 months while he waited for me and it took him leaving me again to bring me into reality.
