Quote: Watch the difference when you put no pressure on her she will change, maybe OM doesn't pressure her or ask her many questions. Just a thought.....Kim
When she left tonite I did the no pressure because I was in shock! Really whatever happens tonite and going forward is truly out of my control! Kim the thing is my W has told me several times (previous to this) how always is pressuring her! To get out of her marriage, spend more time with him blah blah blah! That is the crazy thing! I know so much about the OM (or at least I think I do) because she really opened up the couple months we were supposedly recounciling! He is also very manipulating and controling....which is one of the big reasons why my W left me initially! My W did have some revalations today, and look at me now....waiting anxiously for her to come home after 2.5 hours.....I know do something else!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1