Hi Tim sorry for the wrong name earlier not concentrating.....
I was going to post to you not to take that positive step too seriously and then I saw your next post in which you have now realised that.
They call this a rollercoaster for a reason as that is what it is. They can say one thing one minute and the next act totally the opposite.
All I can say is she is obviously not willing to lose you yet and doesn't want to move out but maybe isn't at the stage to break it off with Om then again maybe that is why she wants to see him, who knows we can only ever ASSume and we get that wrong most of the time.
Like I said early you cannot control her at all so the best idea is too look after your and your childs needs and bugger anyone else. Whatever happens with W will happen no matter how much distance or how close to them we are fate will still take it's course.
Truly just get going for yourself and let her sort herself out. Nothing worse than someone who looks needy and as thoough they need to talk when you aren't interested it makes them less attractive.
Watch the difference when you put no pressure on her she will change, maybe OM doesn't pressure her or ask her many questions. Just a thought.....Kim
