Wow! Tim, I understand the need to get it out. Yes, it wasn't good in front of kids. Sometimes these things have to happen. If you know it was wrong to do, though it felt good at the time, then at least you are still consious to the fact. No. may not have been the best thing at the time, but I know where you're coming from. Take a few steps back and check your goals. If you goals don't include her make those adjustments. you WILL make the right decision. Don't act out of anger...

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I still want to work out my marriage, but I needed to stand up for myself!



Have you had difficulties standing up for yourself in the past? I ask because I have been accused of this by my W. When a family member says something about W, my family, or mayself..etc...I really don't say anything. Passive aggressive doormat...Have you made any other progress in this aspect other than the recent powder keg?

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