Hit the wall now what......New thread

[Tim297181]

Please anyone out there please feel free to comment on this question I have:

I really don't know how this is going to turn out!
I really do need some advice though...My wife and I started to see the same therapist together in November. She has been seeing the therapist since our seperation. Now I want to see her on my own and I have an appointment today at 5pm. I saw her on Monday and I have yet to tell my W. The reason I am keeping this secret is I am sfraid she will feel ganged up on and will not attend her own therapy session tomorrow at 12 noon! Should I tell her I am going? Do I invite her? Do I keep it a secret?


For thos of you who don't know my sitch
Me 34
W 35
Married 8 yrs
together 14 yrs
2kids 2 and 4 yrs old
seperated in April
moved back in together in Nov to recouncil
came back from mexico in Jan and now starting relationship with the OM again!