Quote: Thanks for the slap. I am not bitter yet. I am not off the ride yet either. Like I said, it's easy because the tests have been small in the past couple days. Let's see how hard you have to slap me when I get pushed REALLY hard.
LOL!! The man has a sense of humor and don't you EVER friggin lose that, promise? Cause then forget the slap, I'll be bringing out the whip and if you get really bad, we'll pull Kismet into it...she generally covers the Southern Hemisphere but occassionally she helps me out up here.
Right now you are leaps ahead of me when I first started out on here and in my search...you're also leaps ahead of others on here too.
BTW, when are you going to change your name to the name that NYS suggested? I think it's overdue!! I started off with one name on here and then changed it when I started my new path...I've lived up to it very nicely. Just ask most of the folks on here!! LOL!!
The bitterness is so easy to get. You can become jaded, bitter, hidden or supressed anger...and it's important my friend that you feel all your feelings through this journey. Maybe start a journal or journal here...vent here...just at least work through things.
I have a friend, okay my exH, exGF, I've tried to help her recover from the BS of my exH...afterall I was an expert. She has been in therapy 3yrs over him...and let me tell you, I love the woman dearly. She had so much to offer someone and she let him take all the good in her. Breaks my heart.
