Ok. So now I am this guru (ahem) of self help. I can talk psychobabble with the best of em! Seriously, I am learning so much about myself, and how people in general are. I still have a LONG way to go to attain even grasshopper status let alone guru... So, I now look at my W and see this person who thinks because of this wonderful new guy that makes her happy (so SHE thinks) for a few hours a day, that she's found the key to life. I now know that she will, at some point have to turn inward and find her own happiness. It makes me sad to know that and not be able to let her know. I know I cannot fix her but it still hurts to see her struggle daily and not share what I know. If I tried to tell her anything right now (and I have) she'd just reject it as something I am saying to "get her back". I guess I try to live by example best I can and hope for the best.
