Quote: triggers will happen, you're only fooling yourself if you don't think they will.
Oh, believe me, I KNOW they will. I am not predicting them but it is painfully obvious what they would be in my sitch, among many others; "I'm moving out" "I want a divorce" "I lied, it IS a physical affair" "I love him"
Those are things that are right on the horizon, or not but they are all the next steps in this kind of sitch. I know that from reading all the posts here and common sense. I am not sure how I will handle any of those. Probably not good. Those (and anything else I am not thinking of) will be the TRUE test of my detachment.
