Reading through all of your posts (thank you for the post on detachment NYs) I find that this is where I am and what I too am trying to achieve. The problem is in trying to reattach and find emotional intimacy with my H after I have distanced myself so far while retaining detachment. It is a dance that I don't know the steps to. I feel like a headless chicken trying to samba.
Something to think about for when the WAS returns.
