I am still sad as hell sometimes but today, for the first time in a LONG time, I walked out to go to lunch and the sky was a beautiful blue, I heard the birds and the wind in the trees. It was just beautiful.
Okay, let's just the rules down a bit...there is to be NO bragging about the gorgeous weather in FL...K? You just keep that to yourself!!
All kidding aside, I agree wholeheartedly...I found that once I started detaching, life seemed so much more, pleasant...I smiled at strangers, hell I even talk to them now...I don't worry about things. I used to have to worry about so much but all that is gone...now I just have the true beauty of enjoying all that life has to offer me. I'm finding peace...one day at a time...just be prepared...it will not be all roses...you will have a few downward slopes even if you detach...all of us are guilty of that and I don't care who you are...it's human...triggers will happen, you're only fooling yourself if you don't think they will. But when you detach you can learn to work through this triggers in a more healthier way and take them for just what they are, triggers of the past, some good memories, some bad.
