Thanx NY and TMU! Anyone out there wondering about detatchment should read what you 2 have been posting. It was for me a least a very enlightening few minutes reading your post! I see so much of myself in "What happens if you do not detatch"! Then I read about denial, and that is what my perception of what my W is going through in her life.
We need to detatch from a person in denial until we are both able to emmotionally come back to reality.
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
