Wish I had more insight to give, but NY and CKTC say it all way more eloquently than I can. Plus they have more experience at it too...
Just know you are not alone. I too struggled with detaching, though, now, for some reason... don't know if its been the reading, writing, or thinking I've been doing, but I truly feel I am detaching from H. I'm sure there will be days I get down, but I honestly am feeling a shift- a healthy shift, in me. I don't feel my happiness is tied to H anymore. I still love him, but I know my life will be okay and I will be happy- with myself- no matter what.
Hope you get there too...
PF
PetiteFlower
Quote: Follow Your Bliss
~Joseph Campbell
