Totallymessedup, whoever you are, I'm not saying this because you've tossed me a few kudos or because you're appreciative of what I post (I've read some posts where it wasn't that way, anyhow ) but I wanted to say that you, judging from what you've written lately about yourself and your sitch, seem to have progressed a long way in a short time. It seems to me you're earnestly discerning wheat from chaff, so to speak, in finding the stuff that's would actually be helpful to you, and also, very importantly, that you're applying it. You're benefiting from it too. I'm very proud of you. Hmmm. Maybe it's time to change your username from "totallymessed up" to something like "HeadOnStraight".