TMU this is Tim or am I TMU...... the guessing game is what drives you crazy and drives me crazy! I believe that is why we can't detatch is because we are trying to figure every little action out if it is for the good or the bad! Trust me I am searching for the good as hard as anybody! We just have to take their actions for what it is. I have no answers to this or if my advice is worth the keyboard I am typing on.
Tim
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