I was reading something on Hope's thread and decided to interject something on mine. My W does the same thing about her "life" with the OM. When she comes home, she always acts like it was the most miserable time she's ever had (ok, I am exaggerating but you get the point). One time she even said something to that effect. I know she is probably trying to spare me, but is that good or bad? Also, she still calls me sweetie and honey all the time, whenever she addresses me actually. Does that mean anything? It is habitual for both of us to use pet names, but I remember reading somewhere that pet names go out the window sometimes (or more) when these things happen. Comments?