TMU,
I don't normally post on your thread but wanted to encourage you especially now. You're still with W even though its very tough emotionally on you. I know how hard it is, my WAW stayed for 11 months before she finally left for OM/BIL. That time prepared me for the time I'm in now. Detaching now seems like a 'natural' transition after learning to love unconditionally for so long. Detaching, while very difficult gradually becomes a little easier as time passes. Still difficult to do consistently and effectively. Keep working on it, as I will too.

You are in my thoughts and prayers. Patience in not just a virtue, its a necessity. Ask God to give you more of it.