Thank you for that. I think I understand your point. So, taking your smoking example, if in the end, you don't light up when your friends do, then your strength is confirmed. It's not that you don't want to anymore, it's that you DON'T anymore. So, then is my true answer, yes, I have strength so long as I don't ACT on my feelings? I am not trying to put words in your mouth, just making sure I am getting the point from your example.
