After reading further into your and Tim's situations I see the differences now. But, hey, I didn't say anything at all about "balls" or "being a man" . I don't think like that. I just said there "must be a way that you can be supportive of her for her REAL issues while still having enough of a spine to decide just how much disrespect you will allow". That's almost a quote, however, that was a bit extreme for your sitch, and I should not have posted it to you both on Tim's thread. I do stand by everything I told him, though. To you, I apologize, but I have to say once more that I did not imply either of you were ball-less.
I'm going to keep up with your thread. I'll talk to you soon.