Wow! Are we living parallel life! One in sunny Florida, and the other in the "Great White North" YOu know my sitch and her taking the call from the OM is real tough especially in front of you (trust me), and you handled yourself great! This reminds me alot of when my wife and I started down the path of reconciliation. She was not hiding her pain and starting to open up to me more and more each day! I was there for her, and supported her, and kept quite about the R until she wanted to talk! It did work for me because she came around, and we started to recouncil! The only thing is you know what I am going through now, so learn frm my mistakes! You are doing great TMU! YOu are staying in control, and showing her what a caring loving man you really are! Talking about TV shows don't watch "Grey's Anatomy" either. Story line in there about 2 doctors falling in love,and then his wife (who is also a docotor) comes back, and they start to recouncil. They always show the battle between staying married or going for the excictement of a new love!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
