Quote: It's your perception that it was minimal. Even if it was, she can magnify it, and in depression, that's what people do, magnify perceived negatives, discount positives.
Well said. I agree. I was really trying to convey that I understood MY words to her were few but that she was taking it hard. I know what I did/said in the phone calls was not totally correct and that she may perceive it much worse than slightly incorrect. Anyway, I am not in the guessing game business today so I will try to only react to clear communication from her. It's all I can do right now.
Oh, and thanks for the link to the book. I will pick it up ASAP!
