Rob, well, the good news (or bad depending) is that I am at work and it's slow so I'm just sitting here waiting...bad I know.
Yes, that makes sense. I just talked to her again (my call). I just told her I hope she feels better. She was short, and kinda said something like "is that all?". The she said she was fine and said goodbye. The edge was still there for sure. Also, she was not home either. Anyway, I am not going to dwell on that. I am not going to bring it up if at all possible.
Actually, I have turned my reading to depression and along with WAW and MLC, really more than those, she fits the depression mold exactly. She sleeps all the time (never used to at all), she doesn't eat much, she's sad all the time, this thing between us, weight loss, behavior changes, thinking about life not worth living, etc. I am really worried that she needs professional help but I don't know how to tell her that since everything I tell her is perceived as an attempt to "fix" us. Even if she got the help and then realized that with the OM was where she needed to be, it would be better than this.