Please, I would love to hear comments on my first post of this new thread.
Well, she just called. Like I said, I asked her to meet me for lunch...
H: Hey, I think I am going to skip [lunch]. I am just going to go home, finish cleaning the house and sleep. M: Ok. H: I am just not feeling well today, well, really that's every day so... M: Is there any way that can change? H: No (sounding agitated). No. M: Ok. H: My dad is going to call to ask us to come and see them (they live about 4 hours away). What excuse are we going to make for not going? M: I don't know, whatever you want. H: (More agitated) I am asking YOU in case they call you or something. M: Well, I do have something I need to do this weekend work related. H: Ok, then do that and I will tell them that's why we can't come. M: Ok. H: Well, like I said, I am going to sleep for like 10 hours. M: Ok, it's just.... H: (agitated) Yea, I KNOW...
I guess I got my answer, or at least I do if I care what she thinks. She is obviously not interested in talking about last night even though it's clearly on her mind. That last "I know" was referring to her "knowing" I want to talk about it. I am ok with DBing and not bringing it up, which would be a 180 for me, but I am still concerned for her. I guess I listen to her, hear her and honor her wishes?
