TMU Sorry you've had such a rough ride lately. My only advice is that if something is telling you to let it be, then follow your instincts. See what today brings. You don't have to tell her to go to him just yet as you don't seem totally convinced yourself. I do think you need to set some boundries....like OM is not allowed to come to your home and pick up W. Why didn't she drive herself to the dinner??? It seems him picking her up pretty much gave him the power as to when the evening would be over. Also gave your very confused W the "green light" to get drunk and run away from her decisions and choices.
Hang in there
Spitfire
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest. Mark Twain
