We have been together for 10 years, married for 8. On December 30th, my wife dropped the double bomb of "I love you but not in love with you" and "By the way, I've been seeing someone else for about 2 months."
We are still living together, she's acting (usually) as if nothing's going on. The affair continues. She says she doesn't know what she wants but that we're not getting divorced or separated. I have told her I will not wait forever and that I am considering options. I DB daily and have my good days and bad. If you want the details, click the link to Part 1 of my sitch.
