She probably thinks that it will lead to sex everytime, when in reality everytime is in actuallity 5-10 times a year.
As for her love language, the closest I can figure is AOS. To her, life is about doing as many things as possible. She seems to get pleasure from all kinds of activites (except of course anything remotely sexual). She also seems to like material things and being financially secure.
AS for love, neither of us is "In Love". I would like to return us there, but it is a mountain to climb.
As for agressive, I think she like agressiveness AFTER consenting, but to agressively TAKE her, probably not. I believe that she was sexually assaulted as a teen by her stepfather. She claims it was nothing, but there have been times when I have sat down on the bed and literally she wakes up partially and almost freaks out, she tries to get as far from me as possible in the bed. When she does fully wake up she will calm down, but I do think this behavior is strange (and I have NEVER harmed her in anyway).
