Unfortunately, many of the touches that can arrouse will aslo relax. So sometimes I am lucky and I arrouse her before she gets TOO relaxed. Now the other touches, like kissing, or snuggling, or any physical touching that might start arrousal are not available to me, she does not like thoses things. These books have suggestions for how to arrouse a women outside the bedroom, but these options are limited when the women does not like kissing and touching. Kind of a catch 22.
I really believe that there are a whole lot of women that just want companions in their lives, being lovers is NOT important, and is even not desired.
