I don't initiate as often. I still do it when I really am in the mood, but now my H understands that I am simply not willing to do this everytime and is trying to step up more often. I've had to alter my perception of initiate though, because now I've noticed that with my LDH, a form of initiation for him is that he expresses interest in ML later that night earlier in the day. Now, this is not my idea of initiation...but it's a step in the right direction.
