I have heard a lot on here that some don't like to initiate anymore because they want/need to feel desirable. They are tired of doing all the chasing. Some have stated they are just simply tired of the rejection. Or that the rejection just causes them to have more resentment. Both are perfectly understandable reasons.

But I was curious have some here stopped initiating all together or not as often? Was just wondering about this because I did initiate both nights this weekend and was successful both nights. It got me to thinking if I hadn't then nothing probably would have happened. But he did respond, he did have an erection and he was enthusiastic sat. night even though I had woke him up out of a sleep. I just got to thinking about this today, lol, that he must have found me desirable to have responded the way he did.

It also got me to thinking if maybe we all couldn't be having more sex if we initiated more or became less timid about it. What do you guys think about this?