Hi DougW. Not to make light of your situation, but how do you get nine people in one truck? And my next question, why do you get a restraining order for letting air out of your own tire?
You can't contact your W, but you hear thru your kids about your wife, and she wants an apology. How about dropping a hint back to your W thru the kids? is there a little crack there to see some light?
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