How can a W of 20 years all of a sudden come to the conclusion to end a marriage with me and 2 girls. SHe has a boy friend who is putting thoughts into her head about a wonderful life they are going to have together. SHes known this guy for just 4 months. He lives 1000 miles away. She plans to move, but doesn't want to leave her kids. She knows She'll get the fight of the century if she tries to move with them. I don't know whats in her mind. WHat kind of a mother does this to her kids? She says she loves them, but what kind of message does she send them with her actions.
Ive had a rough time with this. Now Im at the point where Im starting to detach form her. THe pain of hurt is almost gone. Ive had 5 good days of no pain and it feels great. But the questions still come up. How long does this take? When will the guilt set in and do you think it ever will?
I have taking every legal action to where my kids will be set. shes not going to be too happy to what Ive done as far as her 401k (we had a verbal agreement that I wont touch it. since my new found revelation, ive changes my mind) OH is she gonna be pissed, but Someone has to take these kids into consideration as far as there future finacually.
