How come he didn't figure you weren't home at any point because you might be out walking the dog, duh? I know. I mean, really. It’s laughable. And puppy has been home alone for longer stretches than that. That partner may slip back to past patterns because the other partner (the WAS) shows anger or aggressiveness as a reaction. Let them do so if that's how they react. It's the storm before the calm No slipping here, NY S. I promise you that. I feel differently now than I did. The storm before the calm…I like that. You know how your imagination might've gotten the best of you Yes, I do. Thing is, I think what I conjured up is a heck of a lot closer to the truth than what H. might have been thinking. look how my ex may be experiencing the sense of losing me, and it's partly causing her to think back and reflect and miss me and regret that things went wrong, and express affection for me, and causing her to mist up some NY S, if you don’t mind my asking, how do you feel about this now? I’ll try to be amused if this happens again. Last night I just felt so under the weather, I couldn’t find anything amusing about it. And I don’t know why he needs a safety net; he’s made it clear he’s “not coming back”. Know what I thought about doing? Calling o.w. (if I had her no.) and saying, “Tell your boyfriend to stop calling me.”
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.