It is actually good that you are annoyed. That is you letting go. Yeah!
but believe it or not, he does still want you. He wants his new life and he wants you to be there for him when he needs it. you need to stay the same for him, nothing changing, there when he expects it, or you upset the apple cart. In essense he is looking to have his cake and eat it too.
Keep upsetting the apple cart, throw some oranges in there.
He's got to figure out that you are not frozen in time and that he can't presume.
Just for the sheer absurdity of this I thought I would share this off the wall observation, some guy in a truck just pulled up in front of my window, stopped picked his nose, and then drove on.