Quote: The man I was married to would not like the guy my H. has turned into
This is how i feel 100%. in fact, i feel so strongly about this that i basically told H that last night (see my post if you want some of the details).
It's so surreal sometimes... like they've evolved into these creatures... then we struggle with, well was he always this way and i just didn't see it? was i just too close and i needed to back up so that i could see the whole picture instead of that little microcosm that i loved? and now that i can see the whole picture, do i even want to invest in the painting or is it just a cheap knockoff of what i thought i wanted or what i thought i was getting.
here's to better days and better loves --- with H or without.
