superstressed, Hi there. Interesting how you think you and your H. would be the type to D. and remarry. I have to say I can't imagine doing that, but it seems we have heard a lot of stories about this here on the board. Maybe it's true: you don't know what you've got till it's gone.
shocked, Hang in there, too. I think about you and the kids all the time. You have amazing strength and it always comes across in your posts. I admire what you are doing. Not making any movements right now, just thinking about what may come, once we get past winter here. However, P&DB'ing is correct: a lot can happen in a short amount of time. We just never know. So, I have to try to lasso my thoughts and make sure I don't get ahead of myself here. I think what happens is that I want a resolution just so I can get OUT of this awful mess one way or the other and have some peace. I'm sure we all feel that way.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
