Glad to see you here. The book is very interesting and I have found things inside that pertain to my WAH. At first I didn't understand how a married man could fall into this category, but there is a chapter about married men. You should check it out.
No, I don't feel powerful right now. If you want to know the truth, I feel very much unloved and taken advantage of. I know H. has problems, but a real man, a strong man would not treat a woman this way. I still want to save my marriage though. I'm very willing to put everything I've got into that. How long I will feel this way is another story. I can't wait forever. Thanks for your thoughts!
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.