I've also wondered how my H would react if I decided to file for D and turned the tables on him. So often I suspect my MIL is the one pushing him to leave me (not that she made him cheat.) My MIL is on husband #3 and in all, besides mine, has wrecked 4 marriages.
I always thought my H and I would be the kind to D and then remarry. So many of you have mentioned that before the bomb you never fought. That was not the case for us. We fought like cats and dogs but we always used to make up. We just had a tumultuous relationship.
Unfortunately when I thought we'd be the type of couple to D and then remarry I didn't realize how much actually having a D would suck.
