Hope ~ your thread is always the most thought provoking. Got my grey matter ticking away.

Mmm I think I need to check that "Men Who Cannot Love" book out. I am sure wah is one of those, I really don't think he even loves himself, and probably is the product of 2 parents who couldn't love. Well that is where that legacy stops ~ let's hope S14 doesn't inherit.

However, if H does eventually come around, you certainly get the final say. And you don't have to figure out today or tomorrow or this week whether you'll take him back. You can wait to figure that out until the day he comes back.


PD&B I love this. Hope do you feel powerful? It certainly made me feel empowered. Oh and you can always change your mind ~ nothing is set in stone.

It is true though, if it is meant to be it will be. Years ago, a friend of mine's parents split up after 30 years of marriage. He moved in with some young glamorous thing, and then 2 years later, they were back together again, stronger than ever.

I guess the main thing was they didn't care what other people thought as a lot of people were saying "How could she take him back?", but they rose above it.

Stay strong. And yes I love that word tranquility. Here's another one ~ Serendipity (I always wanted a daughter so I could call her that but realised it would be cruel ~ probably get labelled Dippy )

Smile, it makes people wonder what you are up to!