Well, here's my 2 cents...i don't really know much about this commitmentphobe crap, but i think that they see how things how they want to see things when they want to see them. Meaning, whatever is convenient for them. So, right now, he doesn't see his R with ow as being suffocating. But, maybe down the road, he will. Its all about perspective, and theirs is obviously skewed right now. Make sense? i don't know.
