Tell me more about these women who regretted filing and wished they had waited a little longer. Why did they file? Why did they regret it? Did they want their H's back

My 2¢. They probably filed because they were angry/frustrated/thought it would send a message that would prompt a turnaound. They regret it because they're not any happier/it didn't cause the result they hoped for.

The mistake they make, if that's their thinking, is that if they had not filed but held off, their outcomes would be different.