(NYS) What the heck does my divorce have to do with a frickin' thing??? Our relationship continues! Her positive feelings with me are NOT erased.
I'm copying and pasting something I posted on TTS's thread yesterday. Mine was kind of an "extreme" case (and not a D), but I think it proves a point:
I know it's not much, but this has been a thought for me the past while since H and I are apparently going to tango in court:
Many people may disagree with me, but if your H wants to be with you, I don't think he'll let previous court action or whatever stand in the way. When I was preggo with my first daughter, my XH and I went through court things -- really ugly ones. He signed his paternal rights over and everything (we weren't married yet). I despised him at the time, quite frankly. Never wanted a R with him; just looking at him made me sick. That's when I was 5 months preggo.
Four months later, my D9 was born. Three months after that, I was preggo again ... by the same guy.
Point is, feelings can change, even if the courts are/have been involved. Just my .02.
(However, I'm not recommending going the court route; I'm just suggesting that it might not be the end all, be all.)
