the book that helped me is "he's scared, she scared". also about the commitment phob. I have to admit it didn't give me a lot of hope if my W is a commitment phob. those R usually don't end well.
question for u hope. did u get out of ur book that a commitment phob is a type of person that typically has to always be in a R...I see this in my W. she wanted her own apt to "have some time" and in relity she is w OM most of the time...almost like she can't stand to be alone...this is why I question if she is a commitment phobe
